Q & A

What Happens If I Bring Up Something Sexual In Nature Before We Meet In Person?

I will
cease All communication with you and NO REFUNDS for deposit will be given. Please do yourself and me a favor and DO NOT bring anything like that up!

What Happens If I Try To Negotiate Before Meeting For The First Time?

I will
cease All communication with you and NO REFUNDS for deposit will be given. Please do yourself and me a favor and DO NOT bring anything like that up!

How Much Time Do We Need?

I suggest the first meeting be two to three hours long so we can get to know each other. I'm looking to meet people I will continue to see for years, people who become good friends so I feel like this is a good investment for both of us.

If you are really nervous I suggest booking as much time as possible so we can have time to sit and talk over a meal or some drinks... or both!

If you haven't guessed I'm not in a hurry. I'm a super chill, down to earth type and like to take my time and enjoy myself with you. You know, long walks on the beach and all that, lol, you get what I mean. :)

I'm nervous; is that ok?

Yes! To be honest I get nervous meeting new people too. I promise once we get comfortable it gets better!

Yes! This is the main reason I have such a strict screening process. I screen for compatible personalities as well as for my personal safety. I will do my best to make us both as comfortable as possible.

What am I paying for?

I think it's safe to say everyone's experience and expectations are different so lets cut to the chase, you are paying for my time. That is all. We will have a great time! The money I receive is compensation for reserving a specific time to be with you be that for a dinner date, photo shoot, hitting a casino or just hanging out and talking.

I do not offer any specific acts or services in exchange for monetary compensation, goods or services. Please don't ask/solicit or negotiate for something I can't offer, plus it's just bad form and I will not respond to you.

Can I make a request?

Yes, you sure can. I appreciate hearing candid expressions of your interest and expectations, within reason. (see "What exactly am I paying for") I usually suggest saving specifics for the second meeting; things go much smoother once we've had a chance to get to know each other. Plus in person we can speak more freely and comfortably.

If you have a request for clothing or other attire I will do my best to accommodate you but in most cases you will have to provide compensation for me to purchase that request.

How do I get started?

I will review your screening form and check your references or employment information fully. If you seem like someone I'd enjoy spending time with we can move to the next stage. When you pass the screening I will email you.

How do I book an appointment?

I have a form on my website for booking appointments. This is the best way to reach me. I don't book appointments over the phone or text. You can always email an appointment request but if you do please include all the information on the booking form.

Do you offer incall and outcall?

Yes, both.

Can you book a partial hour appointment?

No, sorry. I do not offer partial hours.

What happens if I need to cancel?

If you cancel between less than a week before the appointment date there will be a 50% fee. If you didn't prepay that 50% will be added to your next appointment and must be prepaid. Again, this is to help cover expenses that I have already incurred. I only see one client per day so all my expenses like the hotel, travel cost, food, etc. are riding on that appointment. I hate doing this so I will credit you 50% of the missed time on your next prepaid appointment.

Regular/VIP clients get some leeway here.

Are your prices negotiable?

I always say that everything in life is negotiable and you never know unless you try. That said, I DO NOT negotiate with new clients. I feel like I'd like to know someone well before I get into something complicated.

I have in the past been open to negotiating with a few regular/VIP clients for trades but I will only do so if I think the offer is fair.

What if I'm late, need to leave early, or cancel?

Because you are paying for me to set aside time for you, that starts at the agreed upon time set during scheduling. Just like any other business you would pay to have access for a specific period of time.

If you are just a little late it's usually not a problem and I can move time to the end of the appointment but occasionally I'm not able to do that. For example, if I have to check out of my hotel. In that case you will forfeit that time.

Things happen and I get that we can't always be on time so I do my best to be understanding.

What are your travel fees?

Since I charge for my time, travel time for outcalls is not included. Charging for travel time is complicated, its a delicate balance of making sure I'm compensated for my time and being fair to the client who basically paying for me while I'm not actually there. Here is what I've come up with:

$1 per mile each way.

Do you indulge in Fetishes?

Yes, I sure do! I am a Domme/Sub switch and do well in role-play situations. After proper screening, we can discuss further.

Do you ask for references?

Yes, but I am also newbie friendly!

I ask for two refferences form current, verifiable providers in good standing. Please remember to ask them first. If you choose this option I will send them an email.

Do you provide references for your clients?

Yes, I do. However, if its been longer than 6 months since I saw you last I will let the provider know that you are not a current client and I'm not comfortable giving a full reference.

Short of keeping a list of every client I've ever seen and notes of their likes and dislikes, etc. it's not very reasonable to expect that I could give an accurate reference for people I'm not currently seeing. People change and so should your references.

If you need a reference from me all you need to do is have the provider email me a request with your name, number and email.

What do you expect from people you work with?

I expect you to be on time, not early or late.

Please be clean. If that's not possible you are more than welcome to use my shower. You are welcome to bring your own soaps and products but I will have some available for you as well.

I don't mind body or facial hair.

Make yourself at home! Feel free to get comfortable, take your shoes and jacket off and find a cozy spot to talk first. Small talk is encouraged; It gives us both a chance to let our nerves calm down so we can enjoy our time. And remember butterflies are part of the fun!

Feel free to talk openly, this is a safe place.

Please don't talk about other providers or models. We don't enjoy these conversations and it makes us uncomfortable.

Be honest, if you don't want to talk about something just say so. It won't hurt my feelings and it's better than lying for no reason.

Enjoy yourself! If you have ideas or want to try something just say so. I don't want you to leave with regrets and this is one of those "it takes two to tango" things so get involved. I'm pretty easy going and won't judge you.

Be aware of the time. Leave yourself a few minutes to get yourself and your things together so you can leave on time. Politely take it upon yourself to gracefully leave on your own within the allotted time.

Tipping is not required. Sure, everyone loves a tip but in no way should you feel like you're expected to leave one.

If you'd like to write a review you can email me a copy to review and approve but be aware that not everyone gets or wants the same services so please respect the privacy of our encounter and be as vague as possible when it comes to reviews. I like a pat on the back as much as anyone else but I'm not comfortable with the world knowing exactly what I do behind closed doors.